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Laura Winters, LCSW, PMH-C is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who graduated from Fordham with a Master's Degree in Clinical Social Work. She received advanced clinical training in infertility counseling, as well as treating Perinatal Mood and Anxiety Disorders. Learn more
Lauren Gorman, LPC, PMH-C is a Licensed Professional Counselor and graduated from Seton Hall University with a Master’s degree in Professional Counseling. She has advanced clinical training in infertility and prenatal/postpartum counseling.
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Jessica Falzarano, LCSW, PMH-C is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and graduated from Rutgers with a Master’s Degree in Clinical Social Work. She has advanced clinical training in maternal mental health and perinatal loss.
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Why Am I So Anxious in the First Trimester?
You saw the two lines. You should be excited. Instead you’re scanning your body constantly, googling every twinge, and wondering if the amount of anxiety you’re feeling is normal. First-trimester anxiety has its own specific weight that doesn’t get talked about enough. Here’s why this phase is harder than most articles admit, and what actually helps.
Taking Antidepressants During Pregnancy: What to Know
You saw the two lines, and almost immediately, a second worry moved in behind the first. Should I stop my medication? The decision to continue, stop, or change antidepressants during pregnancy deserves more than a rushed Google session. Here’s a framework for thinking about it, what current clinical consensus actually says, and how to have the right conversation with the right people.
Postpartum OCD vs. “Normal” New Mom Worry: How to Tell the Difference
Every new parent worries. But how do you know if what you’re feeling is normal new-mom worry, postpartum anxiety, or postpartum OCD? The differences are more concrete than most articles let on. Here’s how to tell them apart, when to reach out, and what genuinely helps.
Intrusive Thoughts in Postpartum Anxiety: What They Mean (and What They Don't)
You're doing something ordinary, and a thought arrives that horrifies you. Then comes the fear about the thought itself: what kind of person thinks that? If you're having scary, unwanted thoughts after your baby arrived, you're not alone, and you're likely not the danger you fear. Here's what intrusive thoughts mean, what they don't, and what genuinely helps.
5 Essential Ways to Beat Boredom as a New Mom (Beyond the Usual Advice)
It's 9:30 in the morning, the baby is asleep, and you've already stared at the same four walls for what feels like a full afternoon. New motherhood can be boring, and that doesn't mean anything is wrong with you. Here are five less obvious ideas for breaking out of the loop, plus when boredom might be telling you something more.
Postpartum Rage: Why It Happens and What Helps
Something snaps. The dishwasher, the crying, the cup of the wrong color, and suddenly you're shaking and ashamed. If new-parent anger feels intense and unfamiliar, what you're describing has a name: postpartum rage. Here's why it happens, how it's different from postpartum depression and anxiety, and what actually helps.
When You Finally Get Pregnant After Infertility… and Feel Anxious Instead of Happy
You took the test. You saw the result you've been begging for. You should have felt relief flood through you. Instead, the fear arrived. If pregnancy after infertility has felt more anxious than joyful, you're not alone, and there's nothing wrong with you. Here's why this happens, what it often looks like, and what genuinely helps.
5 Tips for Surviving Mother's Day During Infertility
…if there is one day in particular that is without a doubt incredibly difficult during infertility, it’s Mother’s Day. And the day after. All the social media posts showing the ways your friends and family celebrated and were honored as mothers is simply too much for your heart to bear right now. You have invested so much energy and effort into becoming a mother, with nothing to show for it. Your feelings are 100 percent valid.
It’s Not Postpartum Depression: 4 Other Perinatal Mood Concerns, Their Signs and Symptoms
You tend to over analyze everything now, and it often takes you a long time to make a decision. It’s not just that though, you also intensely worry about the decisions you’ve made and how they will affect your baby. You’re confused about your symptoms. And since you don’t seem to fit in any box, you feel guilty and like you are failing as a mother.